Learn how to get over a girlfriend

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Getting over a breakup with a girl is generally not known by guys. Refusing to belive that there has been a breakup has men acting like small children. Texting, calling, and hounding an ex girlfriend is what most men wind up doing. The acts of desperation lead to spending on fancy gifts and large bouquets of flowers hoping that they will sway her love. They begin to feel foolish once they see that the she really has left.

Pushing her for an explanation should be avoided. Doing this will only prolong your healing from the breakup. It really does not matter. You are still holding on this way. She has been thinking about doing this for quite some time. Sudden decisions to leave just don't happen. It is very possible that you were not aware of what was going on.

Do not expect that she will react the same way as you to the breakup. As she planned it, she has had time to deal with the breakup fact. You haven't. In order to get over your girl, you need to step back and adjust to reality.

It won't be easy as you deal with your emotions. Friends can help you through this time. Confide in them how you feel without doing it too much. Don't make them suffer with you as they try to help you.

Your ex-girlfriend can become a friend in time. Right now you are dealing with the loss of her affection. You would never be able to successfully establish a friendship. Good friendships do not start with anger and disappointment.

Attempts to establish a friendship soon after a breakup is usually an attempt to win her back. Learn that you are no longer a couple and accept it.

When you have gotten over her completely and gotten socially active again, a friendship could be established. If you can be a friend and see her dating other men and being happy, then you have moved on and gotten over your ex girlfriend.

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This article was published on 2010/12/06
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